Long-term chastity

Long-term chastity is exciting

Being locked away for long periods of time can be an exciting experience. That may seem counter-intuitive at first – after all, what’s exciting about not getting off? But, the simple act of not being able to cum whenever you feel like it makes some men more sexually and emotionally aware, rather than less so. I am one of those.

This is, in part, a physiological thing: if you don’t cum as often, the orgasms you do have will be more intense. It’s also a mental thing: if you can only cum once in a blue moon, it’s really quite exciting when you do get to cum. And, of course, there’s the hot and squirmy pleasure of spending hours, days or even weeks fantasising about your next release, dripping from your cage in anticipation.

Imagine your Dominant decides how you will Cum and ensures that when you cum it is only in this way or method. But it is also extreemly mentally focusing when your Dominant holds your keys and only THEY decide and allow you to cum, to receive your reward for serving provided. The ultimate power they ahve over you is daunting!

I am only allowed to cum when I am being fisted! This is probably asextreme as it gets, and my long term chastity training is designed to have me focused on my rare orgasms and the fact that this is my only method of release. Mistress works toward making me want to experience my orgasm this way, ensuring I know that if I am not being used anally in this way I shall never cum again. As a result I am now a fully pledged anal fist boi that works hard at being used with depth and girth to the satisfaction of my Mistress to obtain my rare releases. I do anything now to achieve Her demands including being filmed and supporting Her lifestyle. Her methodology has me exactly where She wants me and has me embracing my chastity for Her.

It enforces loyalty and service

A man whose cock is locked in a cage cannot help but be loyal to their keyholder. After all, their keyholder literally is the only person who has access to his genitals. I embrace this as it helps me keep my Mistress in my mind throughout every day and reinforced my service to Her. The mental demands on me and the mental images and emotions I endure are all focused on Her.

Long-term chastity makes you feel constantly connected

If like me you are a slave to a professional Mistress, the weight of a cock cage between your legs is an all-day every-day reminder of your Dominant. It’s a way to feel connected even when you’re not in session with Her. And, of course, it’s worth noting that chastity is something you can play with even when you’re a long way away from one another as She calls or emails to remind me of my place and subservicance to Her .

Using chastity to enforce behaviour and desire

Using Chastity to have your slave focus on its next release and how that is likely to be achieved. Chastity can be used to inform and reinforce the purpose of a release and what the slave needs to do to earn and embrace that release. It maybe something the slave does not want to experience or ultimately has to learn to enjoy, but that may not matter as the Dominant’s enjoyment and pleasures are always to be considered and not the slaves. Chastity can teach the slave to enjoy Her preferred activity, almost a kindness if you think this through, being taught to focus and embrace a method of cuming, working toward that moment when the release cums and the act of that release being the purpose that pleases Her!

By using repetitive patterns as reinforcement of the release the slave learns to accept and work toward the same goals as its Dominant. The method of repetitive enforcement can be carried out regularly at first, perhaps a slave learns that release comes every other week in session. This enables the Dominant to press the slave and educate the slave with regular enforcement. Once the slave starts to accept the fact that it will only cum every two weeks in the fashion Mistress demands, then the timings between each release can be exaggerated. Note that I do not mean the number of sessions is reduced, not at all, simply that release during sessions can be withheld on occasions to encourage the slave to work harder or be more extreme in its acceptance to achieve its next release.

For example, I am now released every six to eight weeks, yet I am fisted every ten to fourteen days in session by Mistress. She calls it training! These training sessions withhold release, but I am stretched, challenged and worked hard to towards proving an exhibition during Her live streaming sessions, the very sessions during which I am possibly released to cum under Her direction. This way Mistress has encouraged me to be Her live stream object, and also for me to look forward and embrace these live sessions, because the training session are just that, training for the real thing!

I now accept that I may or may not cum depending on Mistress’s pleasure during my visits to serve Her. I work harder to please her every time I am before Her, aiming to be the most debase fist boi I can be so that She has a true servant to use and film for Her own personal gain and benefit. As She now withholds release, lengthening the periods between my orgasms I appreciate each release more and more and I accept I have no say in when I am released, only the fact that I am released when I have pleased Her enough through my suffering or hard work to achieve goals She sets during our training sessions. I am what I would consider a grateful caged fist boi.

An after thought: There is a more extreme form of chastity, that being permeanant chastity, where the caged is never taken off and the wearer never has an orgasm unless it is an anl or prostate orgasm. This is a little extreme for me, as i would prefer the ocassional release, allowing me hope that i am occassionalyl rewarded, or as is my case, my releases are timed and coincide with my purpose, that of being Mistress's fist boi. i prefer the encouragement of working hard to be Her fist boi laced with the hope of orgasm when fuilfilling my role. Yet, yet......it is also a hope and aspiration that Mistress will eventually train me to cum in a cage and therefore release is no longer necassary........i fear this, want this, hope it never happens but secretly glance at the posibiulity with open eyes and a healthy appreciation of the depth of commitment this would demonstrate.